Menu reload is using DirWatch to monitor application menu folders for changes. With this, any change on some content will trigger
menu update. Update is trying to be safe as possible: when menu is open, a backup menu will be constructed and replaced as soon as menu
was closed; when is closed, it will be directly replaced.
This still can include races, but I'm hoping they will not occur.
Related to memory leaks: on couple of places in cpu applet, delete was wronly called instead delete[]. Also, when ede-panel exits,
AppletManager would not clean loaded apples. Strange. So now explicit clear was added on exit.
